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just watched THE NOTEBOOK a couple of days ago. have to say that it's the purist and best love story. after all these i've been through, this is the first story that can bring out my tears again. i thought i wouldn't shed no single bit of tears to any stupid love stories. but frankly, this really moved me deeply.

then here came THE FREEBIE tonight. a couple becomes so impassionate towards each other. after all they have all the best communication and love for a good 7-year. it seems to be a bit unrealistic, yet very possible. if you were too frank and honest and open to your honey, would it end up just like this?

during watching the movie i was thinking was it because the director cut out something in real life that made all the plots reasonable? then when it came to the end, the pregnant announcing scene did stroke me a bit. maybe that is something generally will happen in real life that's omitted in the movie. baby is the crucial element to prolong love between couples, necessarily.

or does the couple have too much spare time, no children, no career, no financial/political/living difficulties... that make them think too much out of some weird fucked up line?

despite of the HYPOTHETICALLY SPEAKING plot in the movie, what the director surely wants to show us is the HYPOTHETICALLY happened part. what seemed to be so firm could be gone so easily. suspicions, concealing, lies...all came after the originally-agreed-by-both plan, and finally the relationship has the least possibility to just get talked and fade away like nothing ever happened.

sorry to be negative and pessimistic, but i merely believe that nobody can be trusted, even oneself. because we are living things and we CHANGE from time to time.

so what's it between THE NOTEBOOK and THE FREEBIE? that is love DOES exist and it's such a wonderful thing. yet love DOES fade at some point out of certain reasons, depends on individuals. if you are lucky enough to experience the perfect love, go for it. if shit happens, cry for a whole bunch then get hollow or put yourself in the market again. after all, this is life. feel regret for the things you didn't do but not the things you did. i can't say enjoy every moment of your life, but me, i try my best to live every single bit of it and experience it the most.

pro or con. just write some feelings brought by the movie and not pretty much a real review for it, sorry.

我也不知道为什么给这部写，只是有触动
片头是轻快的甜蜜的爱情场景，

但是爱情是有保质期的，有些过期了，两个人就散了；
有些升华了，变成了亲情，却暂时失去激情。人是贪婪的充满欲望的，这样沉闷并不是那么容易欣然接受的。
女性其实很敏感，毕竟从古至今为悦己者容这些麻烦事情都是她们来行动的，但是她们也是容易对感情波动的，当这样各自寻求新激情游戏提出的开始，其实女性就已经站在失败的立场上了。
因为不管怎么样信任的基础一旦被打破就很难恢复，猜忌是难免的，更难的是在今后对潜在背叛不能自己的预测。

恩好在两个人的游戏都没有通关，崩溃的现实还有回转的余地。
二人世界重新建立。

所以玩不起，就绝对不要参与这样容易过界的游戏。如果你不小心通关了，也绝对不要承认通关，必须撒谎。

其实婚姻是个大陷阱，对不对……